chore: consolidate and update deployment documentation

- Remove completed PRODUCTION_TODO_LIST.md
- Consolidate deployment guides: keep comprehensive PRODUCTION_DEPLOYMENT_GUIDE.md, remove redundant PRODUCTION_DEPLOYMENT.md
- Update all .env.example files to reflect current system:
  - Remove deprecated ADMIN_EMAIL/ADMIN_PASSWORD (now auto-generated)
  - Add proper documentation for all environment variables
  - Clarify that Umami config is optional (primary via Admin UI)
  - Add realistic examples for SMTP providers
  - Update ports to match actual defaults (3001)
- Update PRODUCTION_DEPLOYMENT_GUIDE.md:
  - Document auto-generated admin credentials process
  - Add Traefik configuration section
  - Update security checklist with current features
  - Fix outdated environment variables
  - Add nginx proxy configuration details

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frontend/.env.example

@@ -1,11 +1,16 @@
 # Backend API URL
-VITE_API_URL=http://localhost:3000
+# For local development:
+VITE_API_URL=http://localhost:3001
 
-# Umami Analytics Configuration
-# Get these values from your Umami installation
-VITE_UMAMI_URL=https://analytics.yourdomain.com
-VITE_UMAMI_WEBSITE_ID=your-website-id-from-umami
+# For production behind reverse proxy (Traefik, nginx, etc):
+# VITE_API_URL=/api
 
-# Optional: Umami share URL for embedding full dashboard
-# This is the public share URL from Umami's share feature
-VITE_UMAMI_SHARE_URL=https://analytics.yourdomain.com/share/your-share-id/photo-sharing
+# Umami Analytics Configuration (OPTIONAL - Fallback only)
+# NOTE: Primary Umami configuration should be done through Admin UI > Settings > Analytics
+# These environment variables serve as fallbacks when backend settings are not available
+# Useful for: development environments, initial setup, or when backend is unavailable
+# 
+# Example values:
+# VITE_UMAMI_URL=https://analytics.example.com
+# VITE_UMAMI_WEBSITE_ID=abc123def-4567-89ab-cdef-0123456789ab
+# VITE_UMAMI_SHARE_URL=https://analytics.example.com/share/xyz789/wedding-photos